Changes for a better life

For my and my house going to using less chemicals has been amazing! I have been using Essential Oils for a while now; however, I was just doing it sporadically. Since I made the decision to make it a priority every day I have been living in wellness for 6 months now. SAY WHAT! Yes you heard me correctly, I am using them to help me better my life and it is benefiting me in way I didn’t think possible. #oilymom #essentialoils #livingwithless Because I have had such a great success I want to share my story.  I would love for you to follow me.


Living by Labels

Labels are all around us whether we like it or not. Grandma, grandpa, mom, dad, sister, brother, aunt, uncle, co-worker, peers, friend, student, kid. We all have a label or two that sticks to us! How we relate and live is our personal choice. For instance I may be your family but I do not have to be your friend. You may be Christian and I may not be. That doesn’t stop me from respecting you. I am not going to tell you what to believe just like I hope that you don’t tell me what to believe. We are individuals and I hope that label is most important to you.  My individual belief is we all need to be the person that others want to know. We should strive to inspire others to be their best.

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Surgery Day!

Surgery Day is here! Today is out with the trouble, and on tow better life ahead! Bye bye uterus, cervix, fallopian tube and right ovary. Hasta la Vista! Today may be a big pain and I may be crazy nervous and scared; however, I am looking forward. Let’s do this

Bridge over trouble water

I see the word Bridge and this comes to mind… Often we have a choice to walk over that bridge and push past our insecurities to find a brighter future or stay where we are. If you are happy with your life the way it is now then walking that bridge may not be for you; however, if you find yourself questioning where you are and where you want to be you know your choice must be to choose to walk that bridge. We cannot move forward by staying where we are.

Favorite Quotes

“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” – Mark Twain

“If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up people together to collect wood and don’t assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“If you don’t make a total commitment to whatever you’re doing, then you start looking to bail out the first time the boat starts leaking. It’s tough enough getting that boat to shore with everybody rowing, let alone when a guy stands up and starts putting his life jacket on.” – Lou Holtz

“If you want happiness for an hour – take a nap. If you want happiness for a day – go fishing. If you want happiness for a month – get married. If you want happiness for a year – inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime – help someone else.” – Chinese Proverb

Banned! That is how I feel today

Today is the day after I turned 42, and this is the year I am going to say you are BANNED to people who do not support me and my decisions, my life, or just are there for me. I do everything I can to help others and I am always being shit on like I am no one to others. I am done with this… from today on I will say you are BANNED…. This is my life and I will be making the most of it. I will keep setting my goals and moving forward. I have BIG goals and I will achieve them all.


Trust takes believing

Trust is a small word for such a large important it makes in our lives. Do you know why you trust the people you trust? I do… It’s because I felt like I could trust them because I just met them or they had never done anything to make me think I could not trust them.

People can break trust in just a few minutes. For me it takes a lot to break the trust I have in you; however, lately it appears to be easily done. Friends, relatives, coworkers, doctors it all comes to a end quickly if one string of trust is broken. It’s very sad really how many people no longer think before they talk about others. All it takes is being nice, share a smile today !

What causes you to lose trust in others?

What have you overcome lately?

Subdued is a term not often used when referring to overcoming issues that affect us daily. For me I am consistently having to overcome the idea that I caused my health issues, I deserve it, and what would life be like for my family if I was no longer here on earth. It is a scary thing to think like this but it crosses my mind a lot. It has caused me to withdraw from people that I really feel close to just because I don’t feel comfortable around them anymore. It isn’t that I don’t like them or they necessarily did something to me, I just feel overwhelmed and need my space from them. Overcoming challenges like this has become a daily task for me. The only way to get my mind off it sometimes is to just involved myself in my work and press forward. 🙂

I feel clumsy

I feel like clumsy is just a term for the unknown. Lately I have been losing my balance and falling down our stairs. My husbands says I am just clumsy. The doctor does not seem concerned. I get light headed, dizzy, and have headaches. I don’t know what to do… how do you tell the difference?

Full day today

Today started off with a WTF was I thinking scheduling doctor appointment back to back today. Then I was like well might as well get it over with…. let’s go.

First to the Allergy doctor, lots of talking about meds and options so I can stop having so much trouble. Going to follow up with some blood work to see where to go from here, and if I have options to try. Talked about possibly trying allergy shots again… Oh boy not sure how I feel about that… but I guess it is worth a try 😦 He also recommended I see if the family doctor feels it would be good to try a liquid medicine for constant candida. Left lung is hurting but so far it is clear, says to keep an eye on it.

Second to the family physician, talked about possible depression due to pain and constant illness, and maybe considering something to help in the future but I am just not ready for it yet. We also talked about trying a liquid medicine for constant candida in mouth, thanks to the inhalers. Also told him my left lung is hurting and he said same thing right now it is clear.

Third to the ENT to review cat scan. He said I have good scans and everything is clear. He also said something odd, I do not have upper sinuses. This is very rare and there is not a scientific reason why this happens so therefore no surgery is a option. My nasal septum is straight. So he handed me my cat scans and said to use them with other doctors to try to figure this out… so maybe I just have severe migraines and the med I am on is not working…. hmmmmm off to regular family doctor again next time I am having headaches dizziness…. by the way it is weird to say I have my CAT scans in my possession. 🙂